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He claims to be straight, but he massages me and i massage his hand?!?

OK. Today, my best friend claims to be straight. I am gay, and he knows it. Lately he always want me to massage his hand ( I practice reflexology) now sometimes i just get tired so i stop and just hold his hand, making a little "hint hint" for him and he just held my hand. soon after, he let go of my hand and he laid on the couch and he patted the cushion for me to lay next to him. He soon after started to massage my shoulders and neck and back(lower and upper) when he finished I laid down my head on his shoulder and he put his arm around me and I reflexology his hand. His sister called and he had to leave, he got up and I noticed he had a "hard-one" Now he claims to be straight, but none of m straight friends act like he does. I do want to take it to the next level. Is he gay, if so, how should I take it to the next level?

Public Comments

1. try reflexology in places other than his hands. i'm serious.
2. he's not straight. that much i can guarantee.
3. damn...jeez...yeah i dont know any guy who'd be that willing...idk...i want to say he's just really comfortable but the way you described it...nah! i think he likes you. still, take precaution. he might not be gay and he might get a little freaked out...give it some more time...keep doing it and see where it goes.
4. I would straight up ask him if he wants to be in a relationship with you. I've known straight men to occasionally fall into gay relationships. It might work. :)
5. He is bi, not homo, not hetero
6. Set up the situation again. Get close, and maybe try it while you guys are watching a film or something that takes a while to finish. Also, if he leaves laying it out, and you can manage to find it, (and this is really sneaky) turn off his phone when he is in the bathroom, or something. Then purposely this time, do what you did before. Stop rubbing it after 20 minutes or so, and just hold his hand. Try to stick by him, and stay close to his side. See if he offers to have you lay on him again. If you feel like things are going well, you can make a choice from there... Start rubbing his hand again, and tell him that you like him... or the better option if the moment is suiting you, massage his hands until you can get an open moment just to look towards him, and just get closer, if he doesn't stop you after you move in a few inches or so, then he's not going to stop you at all, just kiss him. It's pretty likely from what you are saying, that even if he thinks he is straight, or thought he was straight before... he's fallen for you.
7. just be careful before you try anything with him. he could just be bonding with you in a gay way, and nothing more.
8. definitely his gay he just doesn't want you to know. he might be afraid of what others would tell him. anyways i noticed that during your reflexology session he had a hard on. try doing it often and more sensual and sexual after wards like maybe massaging his back then downwards, to his thighs leading to his jackhammer.good luck!
9. Either he likes you or he has a hard on for his sister. ... okay bad joke. I don't know. Sometimes these things just sort of happen. It sounds to me like he was waiting for you to possibly make a move. Get him into a compromising position to where maybe you guys are face-to-face and maybe you could go in for a kiss. It sounds to me like he's waiting for it.
10. Be careful. I had at least two straight friends who liked to "push the envelope" with me in terms of their physicality (cuddling, massaging, etc.).... they both later got married and fathered children. I think they genuinely liked me, and knew I liked doing that, and were willing to go "up to a point" but there was a line they would never cross. I think unless they have gay sex, they are not gay.... and sometimes, not even then! They could just be experimenting. If you are out and nice, some people will use you in their exploration and curiosity. Just be aware and be prepared.
11. Please seduce him immediately or send him over to my house for the weekend.
12. He basically wants to have sex with you if he got a bonner. Even, most guys don't even like to be touched by other guys! Have fun with him!